I’m back!
The picture of the adorable cat above, is the latest addition to our family.
At the end of this post, I will share more about him.
Stay tuned!
I have missed blogging, but, for some reason, I uncharacteristically found myself with nothing to say for the past year.
I hope that I have found my voice again, and this is a new beginning!
Part of my inspiration to renew this blog was an off the cuff comment by one of my patients.
During one of my groups at work this week, “Walter,” said, “Carol doesn’t look like someone who likes to cook.”
At first, I thought his comment was completely off base, and I felt slightly offended. To me, he was making an unsubstantiated assumption.
Upon reflection, it occurred to me: perhaps “Walter” was really trying to communicate something else?
Is it possible that “Walter” was really expressing his disappointment that this year there is no funding available to have a holiday party?
Maybe what he really wanted to say was: “does Carol care enough about us that she would make us a party and do all the cooking?”
I am still thinking about the incident, as you can tell.
The upside of his comment is that it reminded me how much I really do miss blogging.
And just in case his comment could really be taken at face value, I was motivated to actually sit down and write a new post on my sorely neglected blog.
My motives might be a little immature, but, I really do have so many recipes to share on juggling special diets, special needs and time challenges!
Chocolate Challah Kugel
This recipe is really a recent adaption of my challah kugel. I am trying to come up with creative ways to use up leftover bread.
I am happy to say that it was a big hit!
Ingredients:
16 oz. challah
1 ½ cups water
1 ½ cups chocolate chips
1 ½ cups milk (I used rice milk)
1/2 cup cocoa
6 eggs
1 cup sugar: ½ cup brown sugar and ½ cup white
2 teaspoons vanilla
½ teaspoon salt
4 tablespoons oil
Optional: icing sugar sprinkled on top after it’s baked.
Instructions:
Preheat oven to 375* F.
Crumble or break up challah into small pieces into bowl.
Add chocolate chips.
Combine water, milk, cocoa, eggs, vanilla, salt and oil and whisk until smooth and well-blended.
The sugars can be added to the bread and chocolate chips, or to the liquids. This time, I did both. The white sugar I added to the bread, and the brown sugar was added to the liquids. I think it might be better to add the sugar to the liquids so it can dissolve more easily and be more evenly distributed. This recipe is very flexible!
Pour liquid over challah and chocolate chips.
Mix until challah is soft.
Pour into a parchment lined pan and bake for approximately 1 hour or until done.
The texture is particularly creamy when it is baked in a deeper pan containing about 1 inch of water.
When I do not used a hot water bath, I bake it in a 350* F oven instead. It depends on how time challenged I am at that moment.
Serve warm or at room temperature and dust, if desired with icing (confectioners’) sugar. I did not, but I think it might be prettier with it.
Variations: I have not tried it yet, but, I wonder if this would be good with crushed matzah instead of bread?
Alternatively it might even be made with rice too. Depending on the desired texture, it might be better to lightly blend the rice mixture with an immersion blender before adding the chocolate chips. The goal is to have the mixture slightly smooth but not mushy.
Now that I see how adaptable this recipe can be, I am hoping to explore other variations too.
Here are the pictures:

Bread, chocolate chips and white sugar.

Whisking the sugar, cocoa, eggs, liquid and vanilla

mixing wet and dry ingredients.

The last few pieces. I forgot to take a picture when it was first done.
Enjoy!
As promised, here is the story of our new cat.
Last spring we acquired an outdoor cat, Ari.
I love cats, but, my husband, unfortunately is very allergic to them. So, when we met, I sadly had to give my 2 cats away.
Over the years, I would frequently remind Jay of the tremendous sacrifice I made to marry him. My husband would always joke, “What’s better, having a husband or 2 cats?” He would then add: “Don’t answer that!”
When we first married, I used to be able to find a local stray cat to befriend and share a “Positive Cat Experience.” Over the years, however, that changed. It seems as though there were no longer any stray cats around.
So, as an act of true love, Jay suggested that perhaps I could have a cat again, with the stipulation that the cat was not allowed to come in the house.
It was a tall order, but, with the help of Google, I discovered that there is a local program by the SPCA called “Back Yard Buddies.”
Cats adopted through this program are feral cats that have been spayed/neutered, given their shots, and microchipped. They are not supposed to be indoor cats, and the SPCA gives you all the equipment one needs to train the cat that you will be his/her new feeding source.
It seemed like a win-win for everyone!
My brother was very skeptical when he heard about it. Dov said, “It sounds like taking on a charity project.” I suppose on one level it is. But, the cat we received is the friendliest feral cat one could ever hope for.
Naturally, life is never how one expects.
Although I am the one who takes care of Ari, ironically, my husband is his chosen person. Ari greets my husband, spontaneously hops up on his lap, and otherwise in general seeks him out.
It is truly very funny.
One of my friends suggested that I sue for alienation of affection, or get another cat who will be MY cat. So far, my husband has vetoed that option.
I am truly enjoying this cat. It is so nice to have a Positive Cat Experience on a daily basis. I just had to share!
Ari is adorable, and I am happy both for you and for him! As to your Challah Kugel, this is such a funny coincidence, as I just made one in order to use up leftover challah pieces before Pesach, but I call it Bread Pudding.
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I am becoming a challah Kugel mavin. I have so much leftover challah that I keep trying to find creative ways to use it up. The onion Kugel has become practically a new staple. I guess pudding and kugel are really the same thing.
Ari has a good life. We have a wonderful cedar cat house for him that he really likes. My husband just bought “pet friendly” garden supplies and during the winter he only used special salt that won’t harm pets. I tell you, this is love. His sister can’t get over it.
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How do the girls feel about Ari and how does he relate to them?
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It is very interesting. They like him, but, their ability to connect to him is tempered by their emotional and social sensitivities.
Yaffa was very afraid of him when we first got him. He was very wild and required very skillful handling.
So, Yaffa would only speak to him through the screen door.
Gradually, she has come to understand him, and now she plays with him and genuinely enjoys him.
Raizel likes him too. Of the 2, Raizel genuinely enjoys animals much more than Yaffa. But, she is not so good at reading him. He is not above giving her a few scratches or nips.
At first they were jealous of how much attention I have him.
Now we have all adjusted and if nothing else, Ari is a bonding experience.
Overall, he has brought joy to our home.
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That is so wonderful; cats are so good for kids, especially kids with special needs.
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Yes! Good practice for emotional support and awareness.
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True, and in addition, a live creature to care for, as opposed to being cared for by parents, teachers, etc. Also, cat fur generates mild electricity when touched, which is beneficial for sensitive nerve endings.
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Yes. Cats are very soothing. I enjoy just watching them. They are so graceful.
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In my humble opinion, cats are the most beautiful of H-shem’s creations. There is a belief that cats have the neshomos of Tzaddikim, and dogs – neshomos of rishoyim, so you’re supposed to wish dogs Good Shabbos or Good Yom Tov, to help their neshomos make corrections.
Also, we learn Tznius (modesty) from cats, says the Gemorrah.
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I agree. I have lots to say about cats.
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You will laugh: Yaffa said: “I am going camping with Micky Mouse.” I said: “am I invited?” She said “No. You are a cat person.” I guess she put it together that cats hate mice. 😂
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So clever of her!
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Emotionally she is brilliant.
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As many children with special needs are, but this was a logical conclusion, rather than emotional – excellent!
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Truthfully, I tend to take of him the most. If I watch, sometimes they will feed him. He is a medium haired cat, so I brush him daily to prevent fur balls. Before I started brushing him, he would vomit a lot. He loves 💕💕 being brushed. It makes him purr and he finds it very relaxing too.😻
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Even if they don’t take care of him in reality, they most probably feel that they do, and that’s already important for their development. My Beba loves being petted, but hates being brushed, so we gave up on it long time ago. Her brother Barmalei, who is short-haired, grooms her, so she doesn’t have hair balls and doesn’t throw up at all, but he does, even though I give him anti-hair ball treats.
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Fortunately, Ari is outside so cleaning up is easier.
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I had to get a robot vacuum cleaner, since I can’t use a real one, so I just let it buzz around for a while every day. Unfortunately, Little Pyshka learned to start it, and now I have to remember yet another thing to turn off before Shabbos.
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Too funny! But, that could be a great way to keep my floors clean 🧼🧹
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It is, and they are pretty reasonable now; I got mine for under $200.
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Such a nice cat story. I am so happy you manged to have a cat after all … I can’t imagine my life without my two furry babies.
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I am so happy with the cat too! I was feeling very cat deprived before he arrived. We have also made tremendous progress: Ari will now sit on my lap and purr! 😄.
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Welcome back! We’ve missed you!
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Thank you! I have missed you and everyone else too!
Odd how the voices of everyone stayed in my head for this whole year.
But, every time I sat down and tried to write, nothing flowed.
The bright side is, it was kind of like a sabbatical: the rest was rejuvenating.⛱
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It seems like cats love whomever is the most allergic to them (like my mothers cats). Did you give any of those to Walter? Sounds like he may have appreciated some. 😀
Glad you came back!
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😂😂
I brought in Apple Challah Kugel recently and his response was “this is poor people’s food.” And, here I thought I was sharing a traditional family recipe. 🙃
Fortunately for Walter, everyone is used to his crabbiness and they love him anyway.
I am always awed by their kindness towards each other.
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Oh, he and Cranky would get along great then! Lol
It sounds so very tasty and not a poor mans food.
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It is one of our favorites!
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So glad to hear your blogging voice once again…and I can attest, this chocolate kugel really is delicious!
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🥰🙏🏻
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Welcome back! I missed your blogs!
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So nice to hear from you!! I miss you too!🙅♀️
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